How to Approach a Girl in Public

This is a good way to approach women in a public setting without seeming creepy. You can meet women anywhere. You may even meet your future wife standing at a bus stop.



STEPS :


1. You have to get out there and seek them out! Most intelligent and classy girls do not go door to door looking for dates.


2. Enter a public place such as school and check out the girls (Note: if you are too old to be in school, it will look creepy).


3. Seek eye contact. Maintain eye contact while trying to keep underwear and armpits dry.


4. Smile. Avoid appearing overconfident as she may find you cocky, but you mustn't be shy either. Some girls do like shy guys. But most of them want a guy who's not afraid to go out on a limb sometimes.


5. Approach with confidence; don't use cheesy pick-up lines (A pick-up line is a conversation opener with the intent of engaging an unfamiliar person for sex, romance, or dating. ...), they rarely work. A simple "Hi, how are you tonight?" should break the ice. Or, if you're a teenager, a less formal "Hey, how's it going?" or "Hey, what's up?" will suffice. Being polite and friendly always helps.


6. Wait for the signals that she is interested: laughing (at your hilarious jokes), flicking her hair around, etc. If she makes any physical contact, like touching your arm while she laughs, it's a good sign.


7. Take a hint if she's not interested. If she's busy, or if your comic genius is not being appreciated, then say, "It was great to meet you" and cut your losses. If you come on too strong, some women might feel threatened.


8. Take it small steps at a time. If you think she is interested: be brief, return to your friends, say, "Maybe we can have a chat later."


9. And most important: Be yourself!

How to Start a Conversation with Your Crush Without It Being Awkward

Having a crush on someone can make you very shy around that person and many times you aren't acquainted with your crush. The only way to do that is to communicate, and if you don't know them yet, the only way to do that is to get to know them. The first step you must take before you ask them out is by starting up a conversation. But, unfortunately, that's easier said than done for most people. If you are one of those people, this guide is for you.



STEPS :


1. Start a simple conversation with them about school. Your crush is probably in at least one of your classes at school or after school programs, otherwise how would you ever see them besides maybe in the hallways? Well, if you're near them as the two of you are walking to class, ask if any homework was assigned the previous night, or if there was a meeting of some sort after school ended. They will almost definitely answer you, since you asked a pretty casual question. If they say yes, say you forgot to do it and were up late watching movies (list real movies that you've actually seen off the top of your head). Then ask your crush if they have seen any of them, or maybe they'll say they saw one of them before you ask them. If your crush hasn't seen any of them, recommend one of them and say why. If your crush has already seen the movie, start talking about your favorite parts, lines, etc.


2. Now that you know you can have conversation with your crush, sit near them if possible so you can take part in the conversations they have with the people around them. Don't let the people around you exclude you from the conversations. Make comments. Ask questions. Crack some jokes.


3. At any time, ask everybody who's in the conversation what school clubs they do, and you'll be able to find out which ones,if any, that your crush does. They may interest you and you could join them and you would be around your crush more and be able to get to know them better.


4. Tell people in the conversation about something exciting you're doing after school one day in class. Then people will share what they're doing after school as well (unless they are completely ignoring you, which shouldn't be happening at this point), or maybe what they always doafter school. This may give you an idea of where your crush hangs out. You could go there after school and meet your crush there, and talk to them. However, keep in mind that all this shouldn't be within 5 minutes. Make sure you drag it out just a little bit, so it actually looks like you care about everyone else comments, or replies other than your crushes but make sure you listen to your crush too and dont get into deep conversation with other people. Make sure your crush is still in the conversation.

How to Tell when a Girl Is Interested in You

Are you deeply in love with a girl or have 'liked' a girl for a long time and are you too afraid to ask her how she feels? If you are uncertain of how she feels about you, here are some ways to tell if she is interested in you.



STEPS :


1. Let her know you listen. Listen to some information that she tells you because you might use it, for example when she says she likes Starbucks, you can bring her a frappo someday and say "I know you like Starbucks so bought you a frappo".


2. Say something funny. When you're having a group activity, do or say something funny then look at her reaction. If she laughs even though it's not funny, she likes you, if she smiles, she pitys you.


3. Flirt with other girls when she's around. It will get her attention, and she'll get jelous, thus she feels the need to flirt with you.


4. GO FOR IT. Tell her you like her! Every girl wants a guy to tell them you like her except if she's taken, like if she's dating someone else even though they're not exclusive yet. ESPECIALLY when her boyfriend's the captain of the football team.

How to Know if a Girl Likes You

Not sure what those glances, smiles and looks mean? Follow these steps to find out if she really likes you, they'll help.


STEPS :


1. Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping), adjusting her clothes, and might stare at you. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at a normally boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy dork.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot for no reason.


2. Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirtwith guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hug you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you.


3. Notice if she touches you more often than what friends do (she's constantly trying to touch your hand or something). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. But conversely, don't assume that just because she isn't touching you that she doesn't like you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself.


4. Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you - which means that you should probably make the first move. If she holds the stare, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name.


5. Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date, Who do you like better, Who is the hottest, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.


6. Look out for the damsel in distress. If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, in which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your cue to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.


7. Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, say goodbye to her. She is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.

How to Start a Conversation with Your Crush Without It Being Awkward

Having a crush on someone can make you very shy around that person and many times you aren't acquainted with your crush. The only way to do that is to communicate, and if you don't know them yet, the only way to do that is to get to know them. The first step you must take before you ask them out is by starting up a conversation. But, unfortunately, that's easier said than done for most people. If you are one of those people, this guide is for you.





STEPS :


1. Start a simple conversation with them about school. Your crush is probably in at least one of your classes at school or after school programs, otherwise how would you ever see them besides maybe in the hallways? Well, if you're near them as the two of you are walking to class, ask if any homework was assigned the previous night, or if there was a meeting of some sort after school ended. They will almost definitely answer you, since you asked a pretty casual question. If they say yes, say you forgot to do it and were up late watching movies (list real movies that you've actually seen off the top of your head). Then ask your crush if they have seen any of them, or maybe they'll say they saw one of them before you ask them. If your crush hasn't seen any of them, recommend one of them and say why. If your crush has already seen the movie, start talking about your favorite parts, lines, etc.


3. Now that you know you can have conversation with your crush, sit near them if possible so you can take part in the conversations they have with the people around them. Don't let the people around you exclude you from the conversations. Make comments. Ask questions. Crack some jokes.


3. At any time, ask everybody who's in the conversation what school clubs they do, and you'll be able to find out which ones,if any, that your crush does. They may interest you and you could join them and you would be around your crush more and be able to get to know them better.


4. Tell people in the conversation about something exciting you're doing after school one day in class. Then people will share what they're doing after school as well (unless they are completely ignoring you, which shouldn't be happening at this point), or maybe what they always doafter school. This may give you an idea of where your crush hangs out. You could go there after school and meet your crush there, and talk to them. However, keep in mind that all this shouldn't be within 5 minutes. Make sure you drag it out just a little bit, so it actually looks like you care about everyone else comments, or replies other than your crushes but make sure you listen to your crush too and dont get into deep conversation with other people. Make sure your crush is still in the conversation.

How to Hug a Girl

Especially in high school, hugging a girl can be an awkward new experience for a guy in a new relationship. Maybe you decided that previous hugs hadn't worked out, or maybe you really have no idea what should be going on in a hug. Well, your worries are over!



STEPS :

1. Ensure that you are in a favorable environment. Hugs aren't as effective in crowded areas, or places where other people might be staring at you. It's awkward to have your best friend walk up and start talking to you while you're hugging someone. Try a quiet street or park, or if you're inside, go to the corner of the room.


2. Approach with caution, but confidence. That may sound impossible, but it can be practiced in other situations. You should be sure the girl is prepared for a hug, at least as far as the relationship goes; she probably won't appreciate one if you only barely know her.


3. Look into her eyes for a few seconds. It's generally preferable to smile and say something like "How was your day?" or some other relatively unimportant small talk that doesn't call for a long reply... hopefully. The reply can come as an advantage, as a bad day might warrant a hug.


4. Lean your torso forward and extend your arms. The girl should acknowledge this; if she doesn't, pull back momentarily, just for a split second, to make sure she wants the hug. If you get the impression that she doesn't want the hug, adjust your extended arms to offer a quick pat on the shoulder or back instead; however, the girl will probably extend her arms towards you as well. Take a step forward to have her feet and your feet nearly touching so that you don't have to lean forward as far to reach her.


5. Embrace her by placing your arms around her back, perhaps near her waist, and lightly pulling her toward you. Her arms will typically be directed to either your waist or your shoulders. The first few seconds of the hug should be just like any other hug: firm but gentle. Be careful to avoid placing your hands on inappropriate places of the girl's body.


6. Make the hug more intimate, if it's appropriate. There are various things you can do to make your hug "more interesting", but if performed under the wrong circumstances, they could easily make the girl feel a little uncomfortable, wanting to back away. Whatever direction you take it, a first hug should probably not last any more than four to five seconds. Remember that these options are generally not recommended for friend-only hugs, and it's best not to attempt to combine these in a single hug.

• Move your arms around on her back just a few inches up and down, but wait a moment before doing so. Do not pat her back; this can make the hug awkward and too friendly.
  
• Slowly sway back and forth, exchanging your weight on each foot.
  
• Hold her tighter and lift her up off her feet by leaning backwards. You could even then proceed to spin her by turning around halfway or all the way. This is a playful and fun hug, but be sure the girl is going to accept it.

7. End the hug appropriately. It is likely that the girl will pull away before you do, but she may not. If she relaxes her arms, it is usually a sign that you should release her. When pulling away, simply let your arms slide out from her sides and back to rest at your own sides.

8. Make eye contact with her again. You want to give the impression that you appreciate the hug, so it would be good to smile. Once you have done that, you are pretty much free to go or strike up a conversation, or perhaps continue or close a conversation that you had started. Sometimes it is better to leave right after a hug, as it can make both of you want to embrace again and can strengthen a relationship.

How to Touch a Girl

How do you break the touch barrier with a girl you like? It's difficult to know when to reach out to rub her, and when you're going too far. Some girls won't warn you that you're getting too close, and you might discover—the hard way—that you've accidentally crossed the line and made her feel uncomfortable.



STEPS :


1. Test the waters with impeccable manners. This is a great way to break the touch barrier while making her feel comfortable and appreciated at the same time, especially early on when you're just getting to know each other.

• If you're both about to leave and she needs to put on a jacket or coat, hold it out for her like a gentleman so that she can slip her arms into the sleeves. Bring the jacket gently up to her shoulders. The knuckles of your fingers will probably gently brush up against her as you're doing this. How does she respond? Does she pull away as soon as her jacket is on? Or does she linger, appreciating the gesture? If she responds positively and you notice that her hair is between her jacket and her back, pull it out for her carefully—pull the ends out without pulling the hair away from her scalp in any way. Be careful with this as many girls have procedures for taking their hair out of their coats to retain their hairstyles. If you feel it is appropriate, this could be a good time to tell her that she has beautiful hair, or that it smells wonderful. People appreciate compliments.
  
• Offer your hand when she might need to keep her balance, such as when she's getting into or out of a car, or when she's stepping over a puddle or any other uneven surface. Girls love this because it shows that you are thinking of her, not just yourself. This is more likely to be appropriate if she's dressed nicely or wearing heels. If the situation's more casual, go somewhere that you have to step up high (such as a ledge, or a rock). Step up first, then turn around and hold out your hand to help her come up. When you come down, go first again and hold out your hand once more, helping her step down. How does she respond when you offer your hand? Does she seem receptive? Or does she hurry to let go?
  
• Hold out your elbow as an invitation for her to hook her arm around yours, especially if you're about to walk together. This is a classically romantic way to walk as a couple without being too touchy-feely.
  
• Ladies first. That is, allow her to go first through doors, corridors, or through friendly crowds. A nice, firm gesture would be to press with your hand just above her waist, towards the door (or corridor), while saying "after you". Do not attempt to let your hand fall below the waistline. Other spots to press would be the back of the arm, just above the elbow (especially recommended if the girl has her arms bare, e.g. she is wearing short sleeves), or very softly and cautiously on the shoulder. Remember that any contact made with skin should be made with warm, dry hands.
  
• Lead the way if you're about to go through a crowd. Hold out your hand so you can walk through the crowd without losing each other. This not only shows that you care about her, but it also shows that you can take the lead. Once you're out of the crowd, you can continue holding her hand (if she seems to want to).

2. Look for anything that may be on her face or hair. It's not uncommon to see a loose eyelash on someone's face, especially the cheek area. If you see one, tell her, "Hold still; you have an eyelash on your face. Let me get it off." Pull it off her face very gently—don't apply too much pressure, especially if she's wearing make-up. Some people will put an eyelash on their fingertip and make a wish before blowing it away; if you think she's the type to enjoy this, then show her the eyelash on your finger and ask her to make a wish and blow it away. If you see something in her hair (a piece of lint, a little branch, a ball of dust), do the same: ask her to stay still, and gently pull it out (but don't make a wish on it!).

• If you want to slyly arrange an opportunity, you could take her somewhere that you knowshe'll probably get something in her hair (like a dusty attic or a part of the woods with low trees).
  
• With anything that's on her face or hair that might be embarrassing (like a piece of food) you'll need to decide whether or not to do this. Some girls will be mortified if you tell her she has a dead spider in her hair and offer to pick it off; others will find it humorous. If you're not sure, don't point it out. She might come home and feel embarrassed that you saw something on her face or hair that wasn't flattering, but she can hope that you didn't notice, or that it wasn't there the whole time.

3. Notice something on her hands. Look carefully at her hands; does she have a different ring, a new cut, or a different nail color? Acknowledge it verbally ("That's a pretty ring" or "What happened to your finger?" or "Your hand looks nice"). Hold out your hand, palm up, and ask if you can look closer. Inspect whatever is different, and ask a question or make a (positive) comment. While you're doing all of this, get a feel for how she responds to having her hand in yours. After she has responded to your comment or question, briefly rub her hand gently and let it go. Smile and quickly move on.

4. Keep her warm. If it's chilly outside and you notice that she's cold or shivering, first offer her your coat. Put it around her. Depending on how comfortable she feels around you, you might take your hands and brush them briskly on her upper arms to generate a little heat. Don't be too rough, though—light but fast. If you notice that her hands are cold, tell her to give you her hands and put them together (palm to palm). Put your hands around hers and rub them so softly but quickly to warm hers up. If you're feeling daring, bring her hands up to your mouth and blow a little warm air on them. (Don't do this if there's any risk that your breath is bad!)

5. Take things up a notch. If she responded positively to all of the above, make your next move (or risk forever being trapped in the "friend" zone). That could be putting your arm around her shoulder or waist, or holding her hand. The back of the neck and the small of the back are two sensitive areas—see the video below. You can also ask to give her a foot massage, if she falls asleep you can do whatever you like with her feet.

Avoid the risky behavior. There are certain ways you can touch a girl that are more likely to make her feel uncomfortable, and shouldn't be attempted until you know her quite well and canread her body language.

• Massages — Don't approach a girl and give her a shoulder massage, even if she complains about being sore or tired. It's not necessarily an invitation to get massaged by you. In some cases, it might be, but don't risk it unless you're confident that you're reading her correctly. It can make a girl very uncomfortable to be receiving a massage from someone she doesn't fancy, and you're putting her in a position where she has to ask you to stop, which is awkward.
  
• Grabbing her arm — Don't grab any part of her arm with your hand and pull her to come somewhere with you. At best, this can be interpreted as annoying, and at worst, it can come off as an attempt to yank her around. Generally, any kind of pulling or tugging might be interpreted as immature or pushy.
  
• Touching the chest, pelvic (hips), and upper leg regions — These are usually only acceptable if you are already romantically involved, as these are generally considered sexual areas. An exception to the aforementioned pelvic rule is when dancing, though even then, only place your hands at the sides slightly above the pelvic area, and don't grope or squeeze.
  
• Low Touching Do NOT touch her below the waistline if you're not in a developed relationship!

Also don't pick your nose before touching her.

How to Date

It can be difficult to strike a good balance when dating. How do you appear interested without coming off as desperate or needy? How do you get to know someone without being nosy or rude? And how do you figure out how a person feels about you--or tell them how you feel about them--without either of you feeling uncomfortable? Dating is a tricky business, but here are some guidelines that'll keep you in the mix.



STEPS :


Define your expectations. Why are you dating? What are you looking for? Do you want a lifetime commitment, or do you want to live completely in the moment? Whether or not you're seeking a commitment can make a difference in how you approach dating. If you're dating for fun and companionship, what matters most is how well you get along, right off the bat. If you're seeking a partner, you should be more willing to overlook initial shyness and awkwardness so that you can get to know a person over more than one date. Most of us are looking for a mixture of fun and commitment, but it's important to know where you stand so that you can figure out if your date is on the same page. Don't go out looking for a one-nighter.


Put yourself out there. You don't have to hit the bars or the clubs to meet new people (although you can, if that's something you enjoy doing anyway). Pursue interests and activities that mean a lot to you. The Internet has made this a whole lot easier. Check forums, listings, classifieds, and Internet mailing lists (known as "listservs") for local events or meetings that are likely to attract people with similar interests or passions. When you're there, be bold. If approaching someone you're interested in isn't really your style, you can still be bold by making yourself look approachable and inviting. Make eye contact, smile, raise your eyebrows--make a connection from across the room. Body Language is very important and can make someone interested in you. Don't cross your arms because that makes you look closed off.


Be selective. Don't just date anyone who shows an inkling of interest in you. Despite what everyone says about not judging a book by its cover, people who are more discriminating tend to be seen as more desirable^[1] probably because having standards shows that you value yourself and aren't going for a date with whoever crosses your path. At the same time, you don't want to be tooselective--if you keep holding out for the perfect person, you're guaranteed to miss out. If you're in a room full of people with similar interests, you should be able to pick out one or two people who you'd like to date--not 10, not 0. Make it a point to not leave the event without showing interest and making a connection with a few people. Trading phone numbers and meeting in person is often a sign that a person desires an actual relationship.

• If someone asks you on a date and you're not interested, avoid making excuses like "I'm busy" or "I'm not ready to date right now." They'll eventually see that you're only too busy for them, and they're the only one you're not ready to date. This can be more hurtful and insulting than just saying "no". Handle it gracefully. Smile and say "No thanks, but I appreciate the offer" and change the subject to ease any discomfort.

Make a good first impression. You want this person to enjoy the date, but you also want them to enjoy you as an individual, so be considerate and charming without looking or acting like someone you're definitely not. People who do a very good job molding their behavior to other people's expectations actually tend to have less satisfying relationships.^[2] It's certainly possible--and beneficial for both you and your date--to make someone feel at ease without sacrificing your identity. Let them discover who you are (and don't swing to the other extreme, babbling about your life story and overwhelming them with too much information).

• Have good manners. Turn off your phone (the only reason you should be checking or answering your phone is if you're a doctor). Don't act uninterested or frown. Gazing off into space while s/he is eating/talking isn't good either, and makes it look like you want to get out as soon as possible. Concentrate on your date; don't check out anyone else, no matter how slick you think you might be about it.
• Don't talk about past relationships. This is a no-no and a sure turn-off. You will only project the impression that you are unable to let go. If your partner asks about your last relationship, just tell them that you realized the two of you weren't as compatible as you initially thought, so you have moved on to look for someone with whom to discover greater mutual happiness. Keep it brief and don't ask about their ex.

Be interested and interesting. Don’t exaggerate or boast about your credentials, successes, etc. Just tell them what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what you want to leap out of bed to pursue. Ask them what they really love in life and what gets them excited. Feel the change in energy during this conversation and revel in it.

• Don't forget to add a spark of humor to your conversations. Humor can create a stronger bond of friendship between you two. It is also great to crack romantic jokes, as it brings up the possibility of what might happen between the two of you.
• Be positive. If you have had a bad day, still greet them with pleasure and a big smile. Don't show up for your date complaining about the traffic, your boss, or your job. If you must whine, whine a little during dinner and end that very short whine with a "glad I'm here with you now!" remark.

Avoid being smothering or obsessive. Never call, e-mail or text message more than once a day unless they reply. Continue with other activities and let them know you've got a life beyond dating. At the same time, don't get carried away with the "hard to get" act--the idea is to overcome any feeling that you "need" to call them, or you "need" to see them again, or you "need" this to work out. The difference between "needing" and "wanting" is patience.

• Don't plan another date too quickly. Your partner (and you) need time to assess your feelings about the date and prepare to accept another one. Within a short time after (1-7 days) call your partner and express your feelings about where to go next in the relationship (like one date at a time, or more dating, or less, or more casual, or more formal, or to cut it off, become friends, or what have you...).

Be honest. If you are not ready to be in a committed relationship, let them know straight away so that you do not give them false hope. If you're just not interested in a relationship with them anymore, tell them so. Don't lead them on. Explain that you just don't see it going anywhere. Don't say that you want to be friends unless you actually want to be friends and spend time with this person on a regular basis. If you are interested in seeing this person more often, honesty is still a critical ingredient to a healthy relationship!

Don't try too hard and allow spontaneity. Learn to relax and be original. If this relationship goes somewhere, leading to something deeper and more serious, your originality will hold great memories for the other half. We all appreciate the simple sweet gestures, or memories which are likely to bring warmth or a smile to our faces.

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How to Be Nice to a Girl

Girls like it when gentlemen are nice to them. So be nice!



STEPS :


1. Care. Care for her. If you are in middle school carry her binder and do things such as opening the door for her, giving a bouquet of flowers on special events like her birthday etc.


2. Listen. Listen to what she is saying. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her.


3. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress. A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice person. Remember, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Open a car door for her. She will appreciate it. Comfort her. If she gets cold take your jacket and wrap it around her. Offer to carry her bag (if she's carrying one). Small acts of kindness make a big impression.


4. Be sincere. Mean what you say. Also be very courteous. It will give her ideas about being with you. Say things you actually MEAN about her. Example: "You have the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen". If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. Remember, honestyreally is the best policy.


5. Listen to her problems and make her feel comfortable. If she has a problem ask her if there is any way you can fix it. Then simply listen or convince her you are listening. For women most of the time it isn't about fixing their problems, they usually will actually be annoyed if you try to fix it. They want you to just acknowledge their problem, and show that you care about how it makes them feel. Once again it can not be stressed enough that you must genuinely care, wholeheartedly. This also applies to listening. Both of these are key!


6. Hold her hand. It will make her feel secure and cared about. This can be awkward the first time, so just be confident and go for it. Hug her; it will make her feel safe and cared about. It's all about security. This can not be faked. You must genuinely care.


7. Express an interest in meeting her friends. Girls often call their friends boyfriends/girlfriends. They are close and without their friends approval you don't have hers. Try using some of these steps on them as well but not as much or you may seem to be a flirt.


8. Don't brag. Girls hate braggers. It makes you look like you only care about yourself and not about her. Also you may get carried away with bragging that you may forget that you are trying to impress a girl.


9. Give her compliments. Don't overdo it.


10. Walk her home . Girls love that . But if she doesn't want , don't insist on it