STEPS :
1. Care. Care for her. If you are in middle school carry her binder and do things such as opening the door for her, giving a bouquet of flowers on special events like her birthday etc.
2. Listen. Listen to what she is saying. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her.
3. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress. A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice person. Remember, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Open a car door for her. She will appreciate it. Comfort her. If she gets cold take your jacket and wrap it around her. Offer to carry her bag (if she's carrying one). Small acts of kindness make a big impression.
4. Be sincere. Mean what you say. Also be very courteous. It will give her ideas about being with you. Say things you actually MEAN about her. Example: "You have the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen". If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. Remember, honestyreally is the best policy.
5. Listen to her problems and make her feel comfortable. If she has a problem ask her if there is any way you can fix it. Then simply listen or convince her you are listening. For women most of the time it isn't about fixing their problems, they usually will actually be annoyed if you try to fix it. They want you to just acknowledge their problem, and show that you care about how it makes them feel. Once again it can not be stressed enough that you must genuinely care, wholeheartedly. This also applies to listening. Both of these are key!
6. Hold her hand. It will make her feel secure and cared about. This can be awkward the first time, so just be confident and go for it. Hug her; it will make her feel safe and cared about. It's all about security. This can not be faked. You must genuinely care.
7. Express an interest in meeting her friends. Girls often call their friends boyfriends/girlfriends. They are close and without their friends approval you don't have hers. Try using some of these steps on them as well but not as much or you may seem to be a flirt.
8. Don't brag. Girls hate braggers. It makes you look like you only care about yourself and not about her. Also you may get carried away with bragging that you may forget that you are trying to impress a girl.
9. Give her compliments. Don't overdo it.
10. Walk her home . Girls love that . But if she doesn't want , don't insist on it
