How to Approach a Girl in Public

This is a good way to approach women in a public setting without seeming creepy. You can meet women anywhere. You may even meet your future wife standing at a bus stop.



STEPS :


1. You have to get out there and seek them out! Most intelligent and classy girls do not go door to door looking for dates.


2. Enter a public place such as school and check out the girls (Note: if you are too old to be in school, it will look creepy).


3. Seek eye contact. Maintain eye contact while trying to keep underwear and armpits dry.


4. Smile. Avoid appearing overconfident as she may find you cocky, but you mustn't be shy either. Some girls do like shy guys. But most of them want a guy who's not afraid to go out on a limb sometimes.


5. Approach with confidence; don't use cheesy pick-up lines (A pick-up line is a conversation opener with the intent of engaging an unfamiliar person for sex, romance, or dating. ...), they rarely work. A simple "Hi, how are you tonight?" should break the ice. Or, if you're a teenager, a less formal "Hey, how's it going?" or "Hey, what's up?" will suffice. Being polite and friendly always helps.


6. Wait for the signals that she is interested: laughing (at your hilarious jokes), flicking her hair around, etc. If she makes any physical contact, like touching your arm while she laughs, it's a good sign.


7. Take a hint if she's not interested. If she's busy, or if your comic genius is not being appreciated, then say, "It was great to meet you" and cut your losses. If you come on too strong, some women might feel threatened.


8. Take it small steps at a time. If you think she is interested: be brief, return to your friends, say, "Maybe we can have a chat later."


9. And most important: Be yourself!