How to Start a Conversation with Your Crush Without It Being Awkward

Having a crush on someone can make you very shy around that person and many times you aren't acquainted with your crush. The only way to do that is to communicate, and if you don't know them yet, the only way to do that is to get to know them. The first step you must take before you ask them out is by starting up a conversation. But, unfortunately, that's easier said than done for most people. If you are one of those people, this guide is for you.





STEPS :


1. Start a simple conversation with them about school. Your crush is probably in at least one of your classes at school or after school programs, otherwise how would you ever see them besides maybe in the hallways? Well, if you're near them as the two of you are walking to class, ask if any homework was assigned the previous night, or if there was a meeting of some sort after school ended. They will almost definitely answer you, since you asked a pretty casual question. If they say yes, say you forgot to do it and were up late watching movies (list real movies that you've actually seen off the top of your head). Then ask your crush if they have seen any of them, or maybe they'll say they saw one of them before you ask them. If your crush hasn't seen any of them, recommend one of them and say why. If your crush has already seen the movie, start talking about your favorite parts, lines, etc.


3. Now that you know you can have conversation with your crush, sit near them if possible so you can take part in the conversations they have with the people around them. Don't let the people around you exclude you from the conversations. Make comments. Ask questions. Crack some jokes.


3. At any time, ask everybody who's in the conversation what school clubs they do, and you'll be able to find out which ones,if any, that your crush does. They may interest you and you could join them and you would be around your crush more and be able to get to know them better.


4. Tell people in the conversation about something exciting you're doing after school one day in class. Then people will share what they're doing after school as well (unless they are completely ignoring you, which shouldn't be happening at this point), or maybe what they always doafter school. This may give you an idea of where your crush hangs out. You could go there after school and meet your crush there, and talk to them. However, keep in mind that all this shouldn't be within 5 minutes. Make sure you drag it out just a little bit, so it actually looks like you care about everyone else comments, or replies other than your crushes but make sure you listen to your crush too and dont get into deep conversation with other people. Make sure your crush is still in the conversation.